The Life Of Dating…From Someone Who’s Never Actually Dated Anyone
Edited April 2020
Growing up, I never dated anyone or had any sort of “proper relationship”. But it didn’t really bother me that much.
Going on a night out with the girls often consisted of flirting with some guys. But it typically just ended up in creating a bigger group to drink, dance and have fun with.
It wasn’t until I had finished my first year of uni that I went on an actual date (and I’ve currently only been on three altogether).
All three dates were a very different experience with three different types of guys.
I was nervous for all three dates, but I was the most nervous for the first as I had no idea what to expect. However, I actually had one of the best days and became more and more comfortable with the person as the day wet on. He made me feel super relaxed and we spoke for hours. We did spend some time together after that date, but we agreed that we’re better as friends. He’s always there for me, as I am him, and I will always appreciate that.
The second date that I went on didn’t go so well, however. We went for a coffee and he spent most of the time stating how great he was and putting down my thoughts and opinions. Quite frankly, he was a total arse. And that’s all I’m going to say on that. Although, it has given me more of an idea on how to handle uncomfortable situations.
I would like to give a special shout-out to my friend Jess for being in that café, so I had someone to walk home with. Love ya.
On the third date, we went to Miller & Carter for steak and ate some of the best food that I’ve ever tasted. The steak was kinda the main reason why I agreed to the date at the time. We then binge-watched Friends on Netflix for a bit. He was such a gentleman and I had a really chill and enjoyable day.
Personally, I found dating tough as I didn’t know what I wanted and had very little confidence in myself. I was so worried that the guy would just want sex instantly – and I wasn’t comfortable with that. However, each date has helped to increase my confidence in myself and what I want. I am enjoying meeting new people, having new experiences and making new memories. Who knows what will happen in the future? But I’m looking forward to finding out.
*Update: the guy from the third date is now officially my boyfriend…I’m one very happy gal!
Have you got any date stories? Let me know in the comments down below.
Cerys x
